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"My parents never disciplined me in any way when I was growing up. As a result, absolutely the hardest thing for me to learn has been self-control. Learning the simplest things become so much harder. It leaves you all on your own to figure out how the world REALLY works right down to the most insignificant details. It also leaves you believing that your parents have other more important things to do than to bother with you. You're left feeling like you're not a priority with your parents.
When parents don't discipline their kids, they're setting them up to fail in life because they're not teaching them how the world works. As these kids grow up, they're left with the unbelievably difficult and extremely shocking task of adjusting to a completely different world than what they grew up in. It's like moving to a place where everyone speaks a completely different language and has completely different customs and beliefs than you do. You have to throw out everything you've learned in your own culture and start from scratch to figure out EVERYTHING. When parents DO provide strict discipline for their kids, learning the rules of life and self-control become so much easier.
I can't begin to describe what I would have given to have had parents that loved me enough to be "so mean to me" that they disciplined me the way Dr. Phil has obviously been doing with his children. Because then you at least know they love you, are looking out for you, and will always be there for you."
"I just wanted to let you know that your wheel is WONDERFUL!!!! I read about it on About's Special Ed and ordered it.
My son is nine going on ten and is very ADHD. We were beginning to believe he was a compulsive liar and that he did not have a conscience. The first week was tough, we had to keep a "log" of consequences just to keep track, but we stuck to it and never got argument one; the change is DRAMATIC!!!! He is like a new kid!!!! He used to do things (binge sweets in the middle of the night almost every night, break things, not do his homework etc.) and then look you dead in the eye and deny and lie (it was like the lie was his reality) and pitch fits and have angry outbursts.
Now he accepts the consequences without a blink and does not insist he is right and the bad behaviors are few and far between. My 3 year old isn't quite ready yet; she's too excited and wants to spin!!!!
I have told my son's psychiatrist about the dramatic change and will be giving him your website to pass on. I really wish I could convey just how much easier life is and how much more hope I have for my son's future THANK YOU!!!!!!"
Sincerely, Stephanie Albright, IA
"...an effective behavioral tool for teaching children appropriate behaviors and inspiring healthy choices.
I use the virtual wheel in my home with my two boys, ages six and nine. When they fight, it's time to spin the wheel.
Knowing that there are consequences for their behavior guides them to making better choices next time ... in the heat of the moment, I often find that all I need is a mention of the wheel."
"I think parents will be amazed at how quickly the Wheel triggers behavior modification. After a few spins, my cunning 4 year old quickly understood exactly what behavior was unacceptable. More importantly, she realized that discipline would be objectively and consistently dispensed. The Wheel helps parents to do a better job so their kids can be better kids. I highly recommend the Wheel."
"I think the kids were intimidated and curious of the wheel when we first got it - now that we have had a couple of spins I think they are getting the message. My daughter has not needed to spin yet - we told her if she could go a whole week that we would let her spin the Just Desserts and wherever it landed is what we would do - so she really is excited about that and is trying very hard. It has helped us out quite a bit - thanks - what a great idea!! I have passed this information on to other friends and parents and will direct them to your website. Thanks again!! If there is anything else you create or even if you update the wheel please let us know."
"Hi Julie,
Wow, the order confirmation came so quickly. I appreciate your professionalism and your site was fun. My husband and I lead, locally, a national parenting program called Growing Kid's God's Way that talks a lot about consequences for behavior. I'm speaking just next week to our local MOPS group on that subject. What fun to discover your product. I had devised my own "House Rules" and "Consequence Chart" (the kids helped me decide the consequences on the chart, and IT becomes the bad guy). May God bless your endeavors in making children more responsible."
Susan
"WOW!!! I love it. The kids are already changing in just an afternoon. Peace - haven't heard that in a while. I have been dreading summer just because of the kids being home and fighting with each other more - but not now :) We are a blended family of 8 children - his, mine, and ours. It makes for very interesting visits with the whole family and a lot of getting on each others nerves at times. Thank you so very much for getting rid of the whole problem of giving unequal punishment out to the "stepchildren". (Seems like the only time that word is used is when someone gets punished.) Now it's fair - FINALLY. They choose to disobey - they choose their punishment. It's great. Now I can look forward to the summer visitations. Thank you from the bottom of my heart !!!!"
We've received the wheel and are very impressed. We put it together during a planning meet between staff and volunteers and it lead to a great chat about consequences and rewards. We will be using it as a doorprize during a July 16th peer group. The group will be lead by Dr. Phillips, behaviour management specialist.
I will let you know if some of our parents would like to order your product. thanks again for your great work."
Darlene Jamieson
Executive Director
Big Sisters of Nipissing
147 Main St. West,
North Bay, ON
"This program is fabulous!!! I have just started typing in the "themes" appropriate for my class (for instance, being bossy) and putting in relevant consequences. I can't wait for somebody to be "bad"!
Thanks a million!"
Bev G.
Kindergarten Teacher
Efland-Cheeks School
Efland, NC
"Hi Julie!
I just received an email about the "Wheel" from a coworker. I logged on to your website and the "Wheel" looks like a great idea. As part of our "Parenting Matters" campaign, we will be targeting parents of children in elementary school (5-11 years of age). We would like to put together a resource "backpack" for parents to use. This backpack (survival bag) would be earned by the parents and it would include: handouts (health, education, parenting), possibly book or video, resource guide to services in the community, first aid kit, etc. I would love to see the Wheel in our backpacks."
Jacqueline Muniz, Public Information Specialist
Children's Services Council
Palm Beach County
"Kudos!
Incredible!
All of those wonderful "Broadway Reviews."
I teach a course in "Violence and Aggression," at John Jay College of Criminal Justice and would love to distribute brochures to my graduate students. Please send about 4 dozen to me at:
Professor Robert M. Lichtman Department of Forensic Psychology"
"Hi Julie! We just distributed 90 wheels to our behavioral health specialists. They will be providing feedback to us in the next few months. However, I did receive a call from one of the behavioral health specialists raving about the Wheel. She requested more as the teachers want to use them in the classrooms. I am giving her six more for the teachers to use in order to get their feedback.
As soon as I receive a report back from them, I will email you.
Thanks for checking on us,
Jackie"
"Hi Julie,
Very creative! And since parents of ADHD kids often have ADHD themselves, having pre-planned consequences takes the "on the spot" thinking out of it. (I used to give my kids time outs and forget what I sent them to their room for. I'd have to say something generic to them like "now, you know we can't have that kind of behavior around here". Then they would start defending themselves and clue me in to what they had done!)"
Marie P.,
Coordinator
Chester County CHADD
"I've been testing your wheel on 3 families with kids with ADHD with great results. I would love to join your affiliate program. Could you please sign me up - I will also be putting in an order for 10 wheels once I have a few more orders."
...Charles Harrison, New Zealand
"My kids actually like the wheel (even the bad stuff). They helped choose the consequences, the themes, and the rewards. It is funny to watch them call for a certain consequence (kind of like that old TV show with the whammies...come on no whammies, no whammies, lol) I am not the "bad guy" anymore.
My kids are 10 and 13 (girl, and boy). I think that you have come up with a wonderful tool for diffusing power struggles and teaching kids responsibility for their own actions. (You can quote me on that!)"
...Ms. Leslie Guillemette, North Bay, Ontario
"Hello Julie,
We think your wheel and story are so great we've added a link for Find-a-Therapist to your site! We'd also like to give you our award:
My name is Judy Gifford and I am President of Find-a-THerapist, Inc.
I am pleased to offer you our Recognition Award given to those sites which present excellent infomation on issues involving mental health.
Best regards,
Judy Gifford
Find-a-Therapist, Inc
"I think your wheel is terrific, and my four sons agree...sort of. While our children need consequences for wrong actions, it's nice to temper the punishment with a dash of humor. This is the proverbial spoonful of sugar to help the medicine go down! Only a loving parent could come up with such an effective way to discipline children. Thanks for a great product."
"...Kayla Fay, Publisher of "Who Put the Ketchup in the Medicine Cabinet?" (www.goaskmom.com)
" Dear Julie,
Thanks for the follow up email. Yes I have received the behavior wheel in
very quick time. My children have found it very novel, especially my 8 year
old son. He has been actively involved in deciding new consequences and
drawing his own corresponding pictures. He has made a wheel titled "too
naughty for words" and chose consequences and actions that he thought were
appropriate. The trouble I have is that they are almost fighting over who
spins the wheel first!!!
So far I have had my daughter make my son's bed,
my son make me breakfast, 24 hours without computer, dishwasher emptied,
plus 2 trips to the movies. All without a whimper of protest. I don't know
if the novelty will wear off, but for now the stress levels in the house
have certainly dropped. Thank you. I have recommended it to a friend who
also found the concept interesting. I am a child care coordinator and
understand the principles behind the wheel. I wish I had thought of it.
Yours gratefully,
Alison Jones"
THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THE WHEEL! THIS GAVE US A
"My name is Julie Butler, and I'm a mother of four. I absolutely adore my kids, but believe me there were times when they were growing up when I wanted to strangle them.
Instead, when our two youngest were driving us crazy with their constant fighting and bickering we invented the Better Behavior Wheel.
To our delight, the Wheel put a stop to the fights overnight. So we expanded it to cover other behavioral problems, and were amazed at how effective our invention was.
Since offering the Wheel online just over four years ago, our product has helped more than 20,000 grateful parents just like yourself."
Two Quarrelling Kids Help Invent the Better Behavior Wheel
When David
was nine and Laura was twelve, the battles started.
Prior to that, they
got along great. Laura was always protective of her little brother, and
he in turn, doted on her.
Perhaps it was about
needing space, asserting independence…whatever the reason, it drove
my husband and I crazy. It would start over the tiniest of excuses. One
minute the house would be quiet, and the next they'd be shouting at one
another.
"Mom,
Laura won't give my teddy back!"
"It's
not yours. It's mine!"
"No
it isn't. I got it for Christmas!"
"No
you didn't. I did!"
And
on and on it would go. Until, finally, one of us would have to intervene.
And there would be a truce…sort of. At least until the next blowup.
We hated the atmosphere
of tension that would invariably follow these exchanges. Our once happy
home was being turned into a war zone, and it felt like there were land
mines scattered beneath our feet.
One night, in desperation,
we had a conference. We called the kids into the living room and told
them how upsetting their behavior was. We asked them for suggestions on
how we could restore peace and serenity back into the family.
Off to
their rooms.
Well, we didn't resolve
anything on the spot. We sent them to their rooms with instructions to
each come up with a half dozen appropriate consequences that we could
impose the next time they had a fight.
The following day
we were presented with a list of consequences from each. Some even looked
pretty good. Examples:
Clean the other person's room
Do dishes for the
other person
Make the other person's bed for a week
Lend your favorite
CD or game to the other person for a week
Make a list of 10 good things
about the other person
Hug and make up
We decided to arrange
the consequences around the perimeter of a board, and then we attached
a spinner in the middle. When you gave it a spin, the spinner would eventually
stop and point to one of the consequences. Then we hung the board up in
the kitchen, in plain sight. We crossed our fingers, and waited.
And waited...
It was amazing. Just
the presence of the board, hanging on our kitchen wall, had an instant
calming effect on the atmosphere in our home. Occasionally we'd see one
of the kids standing in front of the board, idly flicking the spinner,
checking it out. But the fighting had stopped.
Well not forever.
It took about ten days before they forgot about the board and peace was
shattered by another battle.
We were
ready...
We called them both
into the kitchen, took the board down off the wall, and placed it on the
table. They knew what they had to do. How could they refuse? They
chose the consequences. They practically invented
the board. It landed on the most dreaded consequence of all: Hug
and make up!
The tension was broken
as they awkwardly gave each other a hug, mumbling apologies. We all had
a good laugh, and life resumed.
Maybe
we're on to something...
Wow, we thought days
later when there'd been no further skirmishes…if this thing works
so well for arguing, what about some of the other issues that we seemed
to be always struggling with. Wasting electricity, for example. It seemed
like the kids were always leaving the lights on when they left a room.
Or they'd leave the TV on when they went to bed. Or they'd take half hour
showers. Why not make another wheel with consequences related to wasting
electricity?
Well, eventually and
inevitably, we ended up making consequences to cover seven different issues,
or themes. Excessive Arguing was joined by A
Job Poorly Done, Leaving the Lights On, Stretching the Truth, Taking Without
Asking, Talking Back, and Not Putting Things
Back.
And then, because
we felt that extra good behavior should be recognized, we added another
theme called Just Desserts, consisting of rewards.
We called it The
Better Behavior Wheel.
It has worked beyond
our wildest expectations!
In the past we'd often
let behavior slide.
"David…it's
8:30. Get the dishes done."
"I
know."
From downstairs where he's watching TV.
"David. It's
9:00. Get these dishes done right now!"
"I know."
Until we'd get angry.
And then the consequences would end up being out of proportion to the
infraction. And blood pressure would rise, and anger would reign.
"DAVID…GET
YOUR BUTT UP HERE RIGHT THIS MINUTE AND GET THOSE DISHES DONE, AND YOU
CAN FORGET ABOUT GOING CAMPING THIS WEEKEND!!!"
But
with the wheel…
"David…it's
8:15…you haven't started the dishes yet. I'm afraid we'll have to
spin the wheel."
"But,
Mom…"
"I'm
sorry, Dear. It's really not up to me. Those are the rules we all agreed
on. I hope you don't land on a really bad consequence."
The amazing thing
is…we're no longer the bad guys. We can actually root for the kids
as they drag themselves up to the wheel. It's no longer an us
against them issue. It's the wheel that
they have to answer to.
But best
of all…we seldom have to use it. It's mere presence has worked
miracles.
We want
one too...
After sharing our
experience with our friends, and demonstrating the wheel to them, we have
received widespread encouragement to make them for others.
Of course we realize that every home is different and the misbehaviors and consequences that make sense for our home might not be appropriate for yours, so we include lots of different ones with each wheel, as well as the option for you to make up your own. The early version was made of wood. It took lots of work to make and it was heavy, so postage was exorbitant.
We're now offering a computerized version that has room for more themes and consequences and takes only minutes to download. Your kids can be spinning almost immediately and best of all, there is no postage!
The Better Behavior Wheel
...an upbeat, fun, and totally unique approach to child behavior management.
It worked for us, and
I guarantee it will work for you!
Download the Wheel today and the atmosphere in your home will change overnight.
Conflict resolution becomes much easier to deal with. Families who use the Wheel report dramatic changes in their households.
Homework gets done, clothes get picked up, sibling rivalry issues (arguing and fighting) stop...in short, the Wheel produces great kids and a stress free home!
The mere presence of the Wheel will have a marked effect on your kids. Chances are, you'll seldom even have to spin it!
It's Surprisingly Simple
No Books to buy!
No Courses to read!
No Videos to watch!
No Charts to maintain!
No Shouting!
No Tears!
Here's how it works:
Suppose your child is guilty of leaving the lights on after leaving a room. (This was always a big one in our household. Kids have no concept of what it costs to run a household and they just take it for granted that electricity is always there and it's free.) Since you've already made it a rule that the lights are to be turned off when leaving a room, it's now time to spin the Wheel.
Notice that you're not the bad guy here. The rule of turning off the lights was agreed to by your child. And now it's the Wheel that has to be answered to. You can be impartial in the process. You can even root for the child, hoping for an easy consequence.
When you start the program you are faced with a list of themes, or mis-behaviors to choose from. In this case you would choose Leaving the Lights On. Each of the consequences is logically related to the wasting of electricity. This helps drive home the lesson. Remember, the Wheel is about teaching ...not punishing.
To activate the Wheel, your child simply clicks on the Spin button. After the wheel stops spinning, a randomly generated consequence is displayed, along with a cool sound, generally of dismay.
It's important to reward your kids for good behavior, too. So we've included a rewards theme called Wheel of Just Desserts. We hope you get to use it a lot.
Here's what you get with the virtual wheel:
The Wheel - This is the download version of the wheel that you can use on your computer within minutes of placing your order.
80 Consequences - the Wheel comes pre-loaded with 80 consequences. Use the ones included or make up ones of your own. There is an easy to use built in menu so that you can customize the Wheel for your family. When you spin the wheel, a randomly generated consequence is displayed, accompanied by an appropriate cool sound.
8 Themes - The wheel
comes with the following
themes, but you may
want to create your own:
Excessive Arguing
Leaving the lights on
Not putting things away
A job poorly done
S-t-r-e-t-c-h-i-n-g the truth
Taking without asking
Talking back
Wheel of Just Desserts
It's easy to make up your own themes and consequences if these don't fit.
The easy configuration menu allows you to change any or all of the consequences. Simply highlight the text and type in the consequence of your choice.
If you have more than one child you can create different, personalized sets for each child.
For example...suppose you have kids of differing ages, and you think that the consequences for one aren't appropriate for the other. Simply install a version for each child, and customize each one differently. You could do this for every child in your household.
Nothing else compares to the Wheel
There are other parenting/behavior programs out there. Most of them require that you read books or manuals, or watch videos, or maintain charts with stickers and the like. Mostly they're a lot of work, and mostly they work well in theory but poorly in practice. They're just too much effort to keep up.
The reason the Wheel is so effective is because:
It's simple -- Once it's set up it only requires one thing. A click of the mouse.
Your child helps set it up. This is really important because once your child has been invited to participate in choosing the consequences, he/she will have an investment in the process and be much more willing to give the Wheel a spin when the time comes.
Say Goodbye to Anger
It doesn't matter how much we love our kids, or how much we want to be good parents. We sometimes get furious at our kids' behavior and at our own inability to deal with the situation in an effective manner.
Get ready for a surprising discovery the next time you find yourself in this situation. Join the thousands of others who have discovered that spinning is a lot more fun -- and effective -- than getting angry.
Have You Spanked Your Child Today???
Whatever side of the spanking debate you're on, with the Wheel you will find that it's just not necessary. Sure, you could add a spanking consequence to the Wheel, but why would you want to?
You'll find that drastic measures like spanking are almost never necessary if you choose consequences that are related to the misbehavior. If the misbehavior is wasting electricity,for example, choose a consequence that deprives your child of the benefits of power, such as washing underwear by hand.
Guaranteed Results
We're so sure that the Wheel will be a sensational solution to your parenting problems that we give you a full no-questions-asked money back guarantee (see below). There is absolutely no risk in taking the Wheel for a spin.
"I think parents will be amazed at how quickly the Wheel triggers behavior modification. After a few spins, my cunning 4 year old quickly understood exactly what behavior was unacceptable. More importantly, she realized that discipline would be objectively and consistently dispensed. The Wheel helps parents to do a better job so their kids can be better kids. I highly recommend the Wheel."
No longer
will you have to rack your brain trying to think up appropriate consequences
No longer will behavior modification become an us against them issue where you are looked upon as the enemy. The wheel becomes your impartial judge and jury, making your job as a better parent that much easier.
Kids need to know that parents are fair. It's easy with the Wheel. You get their input when you select the consequences to place on the wheel.
Consistency is critical. Kids also need to know that inappropriate behavior will always result in remedial action. The Wheel makes this very easy for you.
Use positive reinforcement!
The Wheel also comes with a disk of rewards for when your child is especially good.
This is important, especially for the younger kids. The Wheel is about behavior modification, not punishment.
Isn't it time you enjoyed
peace and harmony in your household?
Act today!
Only $29.90
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Installation - Download file size = 2,049 kb - takes approximately 7 minutes with a 56k modem...or a few seconds with high speed. Just click on Better Behavior Wheel.exe to start the program. It's that simple.
Instant Download -- Even if it's 2:00 O'Clock
in the Morning.
Once you've placed your order you will be given a link where you can download the digital wheel. You'll be spinning within minutes.
Mac Users -- Please Note: This is a windows program. Make sure that your Mac can run windows before ordering.
Is Your Child ADHD/ADD?
Read what one mother of an ADHD child has to say about the Wheel...
"I just wanted to let you know that your wheel is WONDERFUL!!!! I read about it on About's
Special Ed and ordered it.
My son is nine going on ten and is very ADHD.
We were beginning to believe he was a compulsive liar and that he did not have a conscience. The first week was tough, we had to keep a "log" of consequences just to keep track, but we stuck to it and never got argument one; the change is DRAMATIC!!!! He is like a new kid!!!! He used to do things (binge sweets in the middle of the night almost every night, break things, not do his homework etc.) and then look you dead in the eye and deny and lie (it was like the lie was his reality) and pitch fits and have angry outbursts.
Now he accepts the consequences without a blink and does not insist he is right and the bad behaviors are few and far between. My 3 year old isn't quite ready yet; she's too excited and wants to spin!!!!
I have told my son's psychiatrist about the dramatic change and will be giving him your website to pass on. I really wish I could convey just how much easier life is and how much more hope I have for my son's future THANK YOU!!!!!!"
Sincerely, Stephanie Albright, IA
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